Ask out Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Romantic Intent Used when someone wants to start a romantic relationship. Tom asked Julie out to see if there was a romantic spark. Pro Tip 2/3Potential Rejection It carries a risk of 'no' as an answer when asking for a date. Sam hesitated to ask Alex out, fearing rejection. Pro Tip 3/3Casual Suggestion It can be used casually without too much pressure. Do you think I should just ask her out for coffee?