Be an item Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Informal Usage Used mainly in casual conversations, not in formal writing. Did you hear? Mia and Alex are an item now. Pro Tip 2/3Gossip Context Often used when discussing or speculating about others' relationships. I saw Josh and Emma together at the cinema. Are they an item? Pro Tip 3/3Current Relationship Implies that the relationship is happening now. Lara and Sam are an item, they just celebrated their one-month anniversary.