Forbear/fɔːrˈber/ Definition 1 of 4Pro Tip 1/3Self-control Shows one's ability to control their impulses or actions. He wanted to yell, but he forbeared. Pro Tip 2/3Professional Decorum Often used in formal contexts implying professional restraint. The lawyer had strong opinions but forbeared in court. Pro Tip 3/3Emotional Distance Can suggest emotional detachment when avoiding a reaction. Despite the insult, she forbeared from responding.