This phrase often implies criticism or disapproval in someone's actions or behavior, making it unpleasant.

Negative Connotation

Using this phrase can reveal frustration or annoyance towards the person creating the difficulty.

Emotional Impact

The phrase doesn't mean physical difficulty but refers to any obstacle or pressure someone faces.

This usage can often be in good humor among friends, without serious intent to upset or harm.

Listen for tone of voice; if it’s light-hearted or playful, it's likely not meant to be taken seriously.

The social context determines whether it's a playful tease or annoying bother, so pay attention to the situation.