Put years on somebody
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Pro Tip 1/3Emotional Impact
The phrase suggests a negative change due to stress or trouble, affecting someone's appearance or mental state. 
After the trial, the defendant looked as if the experience had put years on him.
Pro Tip 2/3Not Literal
It doesn't mean actual aging but a perceived increase in age because of life events. 
Seeing her son ill, she felt it put years on her overnight.
Pro Tip 3/3Hyperbole
Often an exaggeration, not to be taken as a precise measurement of age. 
Running my own business has put years on me, I swear I look older!