See somebody/something for what they are/it is
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Pro Tip 1/3Real Intentions
Helps unveil someone’s true motivations beyond their actions or words. 
He was always nice at meetings, but I saw him for what he is: a competitor seeking to outdo us.
Pro Tip 2/3Authentic Nature
Reveals the genuine qualities or essence of someone or something, not just superficial traits. 
Despite the rumors, I saw her for what she is: a dedicated and honest colleague.
Pro Tip 3/3Beyond Appearances
Encourages looking past initial impressions to understand true character. 
The house looked run down, but seeing it for what it is, I admired its historical significance.