Turn down Definition 1 of 3Pro Tip 1/3Polite Decline Though 'turn down' means to refuse, it's often used politely. Thank you for the invitation, but I must turn it down. Pro Tip 2/3Gentle Rejection 'Turn down' can soften the blow when rejecting offers or proposals. He turned down the job offer with gracious words. Pro Tip 3/3Subtle No Use 'turn down' to refuse without emphasizing the negative. She turned down the extra dessert, saying she was full.